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Lebogang Seketema, MSF Driver - from Klerksdorp

I don’t see myself as just a driver; I’m helping protect people’s lives.
Often the clients we collect are women who have been raped by men. I’m not a social worker or counselor but on the way to the clinic, they’ll start telling you all these things that happened to her. 
With our psychological first aid training, we can change their journey to the care center. 
I recently picked up an old lady who had been gang raped. Her granddaughter accompanied her. The grandmother was mostly mute, but the granddaughter was in shock and crying hysterically. I was able to talk to her and calm her down, and this was better for both of them, especially the grandmother.
This case made me emotional because it took me back to when my sister was molested as a child. Raping an old lady, a young child: what has happened to our nation? 
From working in this project and becoming a father, I’m much more conscious of sexual violence, and what’s happening in our communities every day. My daughter lives with her grandmother, and I call her every day, even if it’s just to ask what she ate.
Lebogang Seketema, one of eight drivers for an MSF project treating victims of sexual and gender-based violence, Rustenburg, South Africa, September 2019.
© Tadeu Andre/MSF

Drivers for victims: changing lives in Rustenburg

Lebogang Seketema, one of eight drivers for an MSF project treating victims of sexual and gender-based violence, Rustenburg, South Africa, September 2019.
© Tadeu Andre/MSF
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South Africa is known for some of the world’s highest rates of rape and femicide (female murder), with 52,420 sexual offences reported nationally in 2018. The data suggests this figure may be much higher.

In a new short film, Driving Change in South Africa, Lebogang Seketama, one of eight drivers working in a Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) project that treats victims of sexual and gender-based violence in Rustenburg, South Africa shares his story

Every day, he transports victims of sexual violence to the nearest clinic. Like the other drivers, he is often the first person a victim meets after an incident and has received psychological first aid training to enable him to engage and support the victims from the start.

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Lebogang Seketema – known as Lebo – knows the pain and suffering that sexual violence can cause those who experience it. His sister was molested by a neighbour when she was nine years old. There was little access to care back then, and the family chose to put it behind them.

Lebo has also worked for three years as a driver in a sexual and gender-based violence project run by MSF in Rustenburg in the heart of South Africa’s platinum mining belt. In the informal settlements that lie sprawled around the area’s mines, men outnumber women by 120 to 100. A potent mix of historical structural violence, economic hardship and traditional gender dynamics mean many women, especially those with children, are dependent on male partners for survival.

This leaves many vulnerable to sexual and gender-based violence.

Lebogang Seketema, MSF Driver - from Klerksdorp

I don’t see myself as just a driver; I’m helping protect people’s lives.
Often the clients we collect are women who have been raped by men. I’m not a social worker or counselor but on the way to the clinic, they’ll start telling you all these things that happened to her. 
With our psychological first aid training, we can change their journey to the care center. 
I recently picked up an old lady who had been gang raped. Her granddaughter accompanied her. The grandmother was mostly mute, but the granddaughter was in shock and crying hysterically. I was able to talk to her and calm her down, and this was better for both of them, especially the grandmother.
This case made me emotional because it took me back to when my sister was molested as a child. Raping an old lady, a young child: what has happened to our nation? 
From working in this project and becoming a father, I’m much more conscious of sexual violence, and what’s happening in our communities every day. My daughter lives with her grandmother, and I call her every day, even if it’s just to ask what she ate.
MSF driver Lebogang Seketema in the vehicle he uses every day to take victims of sexual and gender-based violence to the nearest clinic for care. Rustenburg, South Africa, September 2019.
Tadeu Andre/MSF

Each day, Lebo and seven other male drivers rotate to collect and transport survivors of sexual violence – or clients as they are referred to – for emergency medical and psychological care, in addition to social support, in one of four ‘Kgomotso Care Centres’ (KCC).

The centres are run in partnership with the North West Department of Health across the area’s largely informal settlements. Kgomotso means “place of comfort” in the local Setswana language. Each centre is staffed by forensic nurses, registered counsellors and social workers, who offer clients a package of care to treat injuries, help prevent HIV, STIs and unwanted pregnancies, provide psychological counselling and critical social support.

As first responders, MSF drivers are often the first person a survivor meets following an incident. Their role in the survivor’s journey of care is seen as a vital part of the approach MSF is developing that ensures humane, non-intrusive and supportive care for survivors from the start.  

Yet like Lebo, all the drivers have become acutely aware of their identity as men for victims, where the vast majority of sexual abuse across South Africa is caused by male perpetrators. In 2015, an MSF survey of 800 women in the Rustenburg municipality found that one in four women had experienced rape in their life-times, with 11,000 women and girls being raped for this area alone.

Tragically, 95 per cent of women in the study had never reported their rape to a healthcare worker, many out of fear and shame, and limited knowledge about the importance of seeking immediate care. While South Africa is already known for some of the world’s highest rates of rape and femicide (female murder), with 52,420 sexual offences reported nationally in 2018, the data suggests that this figure may be much higher.  

As such, MSF’s drivers have received psychological first aid training on how to engage survivors with compassion while avoiding any secondary trauma. The principles of psychological first aid, which offers first-line support to anyone facing a crisis, entails assessing the immediate situation, building trust and rapport with clients, and helping to link them safely with the next stage of care.

“You can imagine I am a man, and the lady has been abused by a man. She has to get inside the car, and sometimes I’m alone inside the car with her. So, you know how it feels. You have to let her know that she’s in a safe place, she’s safe with you,” says Lebo.

You have to let her know that she’s in a safe place Lebogang Seketama, MSF driver

For survivor Poppy Makgobatlou, from Babong district in Rustenburg, her first encounter with an MSF driver left a lasting impression.  After many years of abuse from her now ex-husband, Poppy finally gathered the courage to seek help from MSF. After logging a call with the 24-hour hotline for survivors to report her case, an MSF driver came to collect her.

“I was crying, then [the driver] says, “I don’t know how much pain you feel, I cannot tell you it’s going to be okay, because I don’t know for how long have you been living like this, but what I can tell you is just try to be strong,” says Poppy, who received treatment in the MSF-supported KCC in Babong.

Molefe Goodwill Motsilenyane, MSF Driver - from Rustenburg (in vehicle):

I was born and raised in Rustenburg, I’m as real as they get. I’ve been with the project since it opened in 2015.
What keeps me with MSF is knowing I make a difference in the community. Especially with the scourge of sexual violence and men just doing these hideous crimes. I’m satisfied when I manage to help women. 
The country’s in turmoil. I’m following national events and they touch me so much. We have daughters, siblings, female relatives, female friends, a wife or a girlfriend. You wonder, if she’s not next to me, is she safe? 
Nearly 90% of our clients are female. Among the 10% of clients who are males, most are young boys, not adult men. Men who’ve been assaulted tend to not seek care because they’re afraid of being seen as weak, not masculine enough. 
There have been a few incidents where we’ve seen altercations between men and women, where we had to intervene, and we did. I love the hashtag #notinmyname. When a female leaves that situation, she has a changed perspective about men, unlike if you stood aside and watched. When you stand aside and watch, she says: “all males are the same.” If you don’t do something when you see it happening, you might as well be a perpetrator because you just let it happen. It’s difficult to do it in practice but it’s necessary.
I’m hoping this video creates a shift in the male’s mindset and way of thinking, and gets them to respect women. Many men feel a level of entitlement to women’s bodies. You get men telling women they should get enhancements, stop contraceptives. A woman is the only one who goes through the morning sickness and the delivery when she’s pregnant.
We might just bear the title of drivers, but we are way more than that. For a lot of people, I think we’re messengers of hope. Some people will be very calm, and as soon as they see you they break down and cry. They know they’ll be able to get help, be taken to a place of safety. 
Before our Psychological First Aid training, we were always as courteous and welcoming as possible with clients. Now we also reassure people that we are taking them to a place of safety and that they will be cared for. We tell them what they’re going to encounter when we get to the Kgomotso Care Centre, who they are likely to talk to, the service they’ll be getting. We treat each person like an individual, according to their situation. 
You must understand, that this person has most likely been hurt by a man. For you to get there and open the door for them and talk to them in a friendly way, it can be a revelation for them. Especially if she comes from an abusive relationship. We stay friendly, open to questions and professional at all times.
Sometimes we make such an impression on female survivors with our care that they ask if we’ll be the one taking them home again. She wonders if she’s going to receive the same kind of care from the next driver. And it surprises them when the next driver is also nice; he’s well mannered, polite. 
My daughter is the apple of my eye, my princess. She’s seven now.  I’ve always been protective of my daughter. Doing this job has undoubtedly made me paranoid about the men in her life, when you hear stories of children that have been raped by their uncles, their grandparents. I have conversations with her already; that no one is meant to touch her anywhere. I’m teaching her to stand up for herself, to scream, and ways report to mommy and daddy.
MSF vehicle in Sondela, Rustenburg, September 2019.
Tadeu Andre/MSF

As awareness of the Kgomotso Care Centres grows, an increasing number of survivors are seeking care.

In 2015, the first Kgomotso Care Center in Rustenburg received 62 cases of sexual and gender-based violence. This number has grown, with the four centres in Rustenburg and Madibeng receiving a combined total of 1,266 new cases in 2018, and 657 new cases within the first half of 2019. Many cases are now referred from MSF’s growing community activities which raise awareness around sexual and gender-based violence and train local leaders as ‘first responders’ to identify survivors and provide immediate support while linking them to care.

For Lebo and the other drivers, working for MSF and meeting survivors has changed their own understanding of violence, and the role each of them can play in changing other men’s mindsets. Beyond their day job, each driver is taking an active role in driving change in their communities.

About MSF's response to sexual violence in South Africa

Since 2015, MSF has been working with the North West Department of Health to expand access to free, high quality and confidential care for survivors of sexual and gender-based violence in Rustenburg’s Bojanala district through four dedicated clinics, known as Kgomotso Care Centres. MSF teams, including forensic nurses, psychologists, registered counsellors, social workers and social auxiliary workers and support staff, including drivers, provide clients with an essential package of free emergency and follow-up care. An increasing number of survivors are being referred from MSF’s community-based initiatives in Rustenburg’s Freedom Park and Sondela areas. This includes a schools’ programme that educates learners about sexual and reproductive health, as well as gender-based violence. The programme, which screens learners for signs of sexual violence as they are a vulnerable group, has reached 25,500 learners across 20 schools in the district since early 2018. From 2017 to 2019, the four MSF-supported Kgomotso Care Centres (KCCs) in Rustenburg provided care for 3,007 clients. In South Africa, MSF is calling for all survivors of sexual violence to have immediate and longer term access to complete medical, psychological care and social support.